Everyone deals with sickness differently. Some people want to be left alone and never asked about it. Some don't. Some people think that medicine is bad. Some people will push for medicine thinking it will make everything better. Some people think that things will go away if you don't go to the doctor. Some people go searching for health issues when there aren't any. Last year, when I visited my mother's hematologist with her, she told me to only search as far as I had to--and then to stop. I was given the same advice by a rheumatologist. We live in a complicated time. Women are getting double mastectomies because they have a certain gene. In a time when people think that doctors want to prescribe everything and do every procedure they can--that is not what I have experienced. What I've experienced is: + One specialist telling me that I'm not sick, but that I do need to take Vitamin D (blood test showed it was low and it's very important to ...