I am a planner. I like to know what's ahead. I enjoy planning actually. It gives me a vision of what my goal is and where I'm going. Before I got married, I always had a vision or goal for my life. You might call it having direction. Then, I got married and God took that away. That may sound strange, but it is something I am very convinced of. It is one way that God has shown me how real He is and that He knows what is better for me than I know myself. You see, I am a strong willed woman. When I got married, I was what you might call an evangelical feminist. Within the first six months of my marriage, God convicted my heart about what the Word says about submission and I realized that I needed to submit myself to my husband's leadership of our family. This is where my vision comes in. I can see how the disappearance of my vision when I got married compelled me to trust my husband. If I ha...