This morning the kids and I were blessed to get to spend time with a friend and her children. The other mom, my friend, and I snuck bits of conversation in amidst talking to our kids, getting them what they needed, putting coats on and off, eating, walking... Bits is a good word. Altogether they made a conversation, but on their own, they would be "bits". That's what life is with kids, isn't it? I was struck as the kids and I left them by something that I have been pondering. As much as I learned about my two strong willed children in the past two weeks, I also learned a lot about me. I am very black and white. I am loyal to the core. I am a mama bear to my children, husband, and friends. I don't live in the grey area very easily. If there is something that my attention is drawn to, I feel the need to decide what I "think" about it. It's hard for me to let things go. What came to my mind this morning is something th...